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Saturday, 10 July 2010

The Way to Happiness...

The Way To Happiness...

Everyone wants to be happy - including me. One tends to do what he/she thinks that can make him/her happy and seeks to obtain pleasure and freedom one can get from life. So waht is Happiness?
"Happiness is a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy; it is the reaction to having nice things happen to one."
I think it'll be very peaceful and harmonious if, only, people have the same things which can make them happy, which can give them pleasure and joy. There'll be no chaos. But it doens't always happen, because people are rational beings and they tend to feed their own interest. What can make one happy may not be what can make others feel the same.
All my life, there's only one thing I've constantly been asking GOD... Happiness... I never asked for a specific way in which He would give it to me, 'coz I know, there's a lot of ways in which He can make me feel such. Along the way, I learned that survival is essential. If one does not survive, no joy an happiness is obtainable. Survival can be greatly affected by the actions of others around. Wrong doings of other poeple can reduce one's survival and impair ones happiness. But we can never control the actions of other people, whether it's good or bad. No one can guaranty someone else happiness. It is in ones power to point the way to a less dangerous and happier life.
I've read a book by Ron Hubbard, "The Way to Happiness." It is a common sense guide to a happier, more successful life. It has a set of 21 precepts which I think are very useful in our daily life.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Taking care of oneself is ones responsibility. A person in pain is more vulnerable to mistakes. So when you take care of yourself, you put yourself in a less risky situation and you won’t be a burden to the other person, thus, you’re adding value to life and contributing to other’s happiness.
BE TEMPERATE. Anything that is too much or extreme is bad. Be moderate, in drinking alcohol, do not take harmful drugs, and make sure to be always in control of your actions. Observing the points above, one is more physically able to enjoy life.
DO NOT BE PROMISCUOUS. Sex is a God-given privilege in a context of marriage. A lot of pleasure and happiness can come from sex but it shouldn’t be misused or abused. Be faithful to your sexual partner. You will never know the urge of the moment can become the sorrow of the lifetime. Sex is a big step on the way to happiness and joy. There is nothing wrong with it if it is followed with faithfulness and decency.
LOVE AND HELP CHILDREN. Today’s children will become tomorrow’s civilization. A child is like a blank slate, if you write wrong things on it, it will say the wrong things. But unlike the slate, a child can begin to do the writing, the child tend to write what was already written. It is very important to guide the children while giving them enough freedom to choose on how to do things on their own. The way to happiness has on its route the loving and the helping of children from the babyhood to the brink of adult life.
HONOR AND HELP YOUR PARENTS. The way to happiness includes being in good terms with one’s parents or those who brought one up.  Misunderstandings and conflict are so common in relationships, even with parents, but it is often possible to attain a compromise where both sides can understand and agree. It is not always easy to get along with others but one should try.
SET A GOOD EXAMPLE. The way to happiness requires that one should set a good example to others. Anyone may try to discourage you because they factually mean you harm or just seeking to serve their own ends. Down deep, they will respect you.
SEEK TO LIVE WITH THE TRUTH. The way to happiness lies along the road to truth. Think your own way through things, accept what is true for you, and disregard the rest. There is nothing unhappier than one who tries to live in a chaos of lies.
DO NOT MURDER. The way to happiness does not include murdering or your friends, your family, or yourself being murdered.
DON’T DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL. The way to happiness does not include the fear of being found out. The bible says that, sins separate people from God. It makes the people feel ashamed and hide from Him. Definitely, without Him… Happiness is impossible.
SUPPORT A GOVERNMENT DESIGNED AND RUN FOR ALL THE PEOPLE. The way to happiness is hard to travel when shadowed with the oppression of tyranny. All benign government, designed and run for ALL the people, has been known to smooth the way: when such occurs, it deserves support.
DO NOT HARM A PERSON OF GOODWILL. Despite the existence of evil men, there are still many people who are good men and women around. The way to happiness is far more easily followed when one supports people of good will.
SAFEGUARD AND IMPROVE YOUR ENVIRONMENT. Everything begins in one’s self. Sometimes, people are just too busy to even take a good look at themselves. Sometimes it does not occur to some individuals that they form part of the whole scenery and appearance of others. If others do not help safeguard and improve environment, the way to happiness could have no roadbed to travel on at all.
DO NOT STEAL. A person who, for one reason or another, has been unable to honestly accumulate possessions, can pretend nobody owns anything anyway. A teacher of mine once told us, when one steals it becomes a mark on his forehead and it will never be erased, it will be passed down to his generation. A trademark known for his family and his family’s family and so on. The road to happiness cannot be traveled with stolen goods.
BE WORTHY OF TRUST. Mutual trust is firmest building block in human relationships. Without it, the whole structure comes down. Trustworthiness is a highly esteemed commodity. When one has it, one may be considered valuable. When one has lost it, one may be considered worthless. The way to happiness is much,  much easier to travel with people one can trust.
FULFILL YOUR OBLIGATIONS. In life, it is inevitable to incur obligation, whether it’s financial or non-financial. One may owe one’s friends, family, from society, or even the world. It is also one’s responsibility to pay or to be discharged from that obligation, in whatever way he can. The way to happiness is hard to travel when one is burdened with the weight of obligations which one is owed or which he has not discharged.
BE INDUSTRIOUS. Work is not always pleasant. But fewer are unhappier than those who lead a purposeless, idle and bored existence. Sorrow itself can be eased by getting busy at something. Morale is boosted to high highs by accomplishments. People who are not industrious tend to burden others. It is also kind of depressing being around them, and sometimes it can be a bit dangerous. The way to happiness is a high road when it includes with industriousness that leads to tangible production.
BE COMPETENT. Encourage the attainment of competence in any worthwhile pursuits. Compliment it and reward it whenever you find it. Demand high performance standards. The test of a society is whether or not you, your family, friends can live in it safely. The ingredients of competence include observation, study, and practice. The way to happiness is best traveled with competent companions.
RESPECT THE RELIGIOUS BELIEFS OF OTHERS. Tolerance is a good cornerstone on which to build human relationships. There are so many religions all over the world. But even though the religion is different, speaks different language, stand in various beliefs, we worship one and only GOD.
TRY NOT TO DO THINGS TO OTHERS THAT YOU WOULD NOT WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU. Nobody wants to get hurt. And what goes around always comes around. You can only get what you have given. No one is responsible of your actions but yourself. The way to happiness is closed to those who do not restrain themselves from committing harmful acts.
TRY TO TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU. Everything comes from within. What you give is what you will receive. If you give love, you will certainly receive love. If you give hatred and pain, the same still always comes back to you. The way to happiness is much brighter by applying the precept, “Try to treat others as you would want them to treat you.”
FLOURISH AND PROSPER. If one’s aims in life are worthwhile, if one flourishes and prospers, one will certainly wind up the victor.

Happiness is certainly, something only ones self can decide. If one will choose to be happy, what one will do about it, how one will do it, and what will one feels if one will do it. Having discipline and a sense of responsibility is essential in making decisions. But this cannot guaranty a mistake free decision. Mistake is said to be the best teacher. If you fall, it doesn’t mean you can never get up again and keep going. LOOK, LISTEN, and DO IT for yourself… but never ignore what you can see around, the people, the nature, everything. “The way to happiness is a high-speed road to those who know where the edges are.” –the way to happiness, Ron Hubbard.  – YOU ARE THE DRIVER --

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