Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.
I discovered I always have choices and sometimes it's only a choice of attitude. Seriously, it's your choice how you want to live your life. You are the one and only one who can choose your own happiness. You are the one who makes the choice as to which direction you want your life to go. If you suffer from whatever your suffering from emotionally then thats your choice because no can make you feel what your feeling only you can do that.............Keep Reading......
If someone is to blame for what you feel then they are pretty damn powerful and I wish i had that super power! lol. You choose to feel what you want to feel. Living a life of Drama, Stress, Depression, Unhappiness, and Suffering thats your choice. Life is what you make of it. Happiness isn't about money and objects its about your state of mind and the situations you choose to put yourself in. It's easy to be miserable and suffer. It takes strength and courage to be happy......Nothing worth having comes easy. I deleted all the garbage in my life because I choose to be happy and being happy in itself is the most amazing feeling in the world....Next to having my angel baby, Noah.
Here is "The Secret" to get a start at shaping your own happiness...
Everybody has the ability to transform any weakness or suffering into strength, power, perfect peace, health, and abundance.
Every single relationship you have is a reflection of how you feel inside about you. You are a magnet attracting to you all things, via the signal you are emitting through your thoughts and feelings. Every relationship you have and every interaction with every person, is a reflection of your own thoughts and feelings in that very moment.
Here's what you do:
~Fall in love with YOU!
~Know that you are perfect. Do not think any negative thoughts about you.
~Know that you are worthy and deserving of anything and everything you could possibly
want in your life.
~Focus on the wonderful things in every person. Look for only those things.
~Do not blame or criticize anybody, ever.
~Set an intention that you are going to see the best in everything and everyone.
~Make your happiness the number one thing in your life. Happiness is an inside job.
~Free yourself of the responsibility of trying to make other people happy. Respect and love them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness.
~Get your attention off those things in others that don't make you feel good.
~Appreciate and love yourself in every moment you can.
~Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing.
~Love and respect yourself completely.
~Know that you are perfect right now.
~Free yourself of any past resentments or disappointments you may be holding about you.
~Let go of any and all resentments from the past you may be holding of everyone and everything.
~Know you have the power within you to heal yourself.
~Never criticize or blame yourself or anyone else for anything.
~Be grateful for the wellbeing that is coming to you.
~Laugh often. Laughter is the best medicine.
~Distract yourself from negative thoughts, and put all of your focus and attention on doing things that make you feel good.
~Know and accept that you are perfect as you are right now.
The above "Secrets" are from a Book called "The Secret"
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“To live is to choose. But to choose well, you must know who you are and what you stand for, where you want to go and why you want to get there.”
May God bless..